Say It!

We all have memories. Some good, some not-so-good. Some we wish we would forget but we never do, we wish had never happened. But that's okay. Regrets are a part of life. Otherwise the word wouldn't be a part of language. It is normal that we look back and wish we had done something differently, maybe better, more or less. I can recount several occasions on which I would literally cringe with embarrassment at the way events turned out. In my room. Sometimes I scream and my little sis just knows I'm having one of those moments; she's got them too. I'm sure youve got them too. Certain things happen and there's nothing you can do about it. Maybe then it may seem like the worst thing ever but sometimes you look back and realize it was a good thing dressed in tattered clothing. Like the time I went out without any money. Crazy, right? I'll tell you how it happened. I like to match colours when I can in my dressing. So I change purses to match too (not that I hav...

So we're back here again, at the beginning of a new year. 2016 is here. We’ve said our Hello's and Hi’s and we’re getting to know each other with each day that passes. She’s an acquaintance. We can never say for sure that we know her until her last passing day. And even then it becomes “I knew her. She was good to me” or “I wish I could erase her from my mind”, like a bad memory. But until then we’re still learning. We don’t know what she has for us, but we have plans and hopes. Some of us wrote down our promises to her and we’ve already broken some, no judging. Some of us choose to live by the day, cool. Whatever your plan is, I hope at least that you did an evaluation and assessment of yourself from last year. Like the targets you missed, friends you lost and made, things you’re proud of yourself for and stuff like that. I want to believe that whatever we do this year is based on things we did last year that either worked or didn’t work. Which only shows that we are really le...