Say It!

So you are walking along the street smiling at something that happened earlier in the day. Then this man passes by you and looks at you in a way that says ‘You must be crazy, walking and smiling to yourself like that.’ And you’re looking back at him like ‘What? Your face is scary, do you mind smiling a little? Or one day your mom gets you really angry so you storm out of the house but the anger is showing on your face and you do not care about what anyone thinks. People pass by you smiling and you think ‘why should someone be happy?’ Or u wallow in self pity because someone is happy. But, come to think of it, what should those happy people think of you when they see your face? I think that someone who is nice is a person who is beautiful both on the inside and outside. Not just physical beauty but beauty in character, relationships, language, you name it. Have you realised that when you’re happy, you mostly want it to show and want everyone to feel the same way? You greet everyon...

Last week we looked at the kind of love that is dependent on certain traits we see in a person, which I call superficial love. And this week we are gonna try to explore the other side of the coin; unconditional love. So as the name suggests this kind of love is independent of anything. It never dies or fades away or diminishes. It is love without any constraints or limits. Have you ever felt anything like this or close to this before? Where you would do anything for the other person and nothing they do can change the way you feel. You may get hurt and disappointed, sure.  The way you feel still doesn’t change even though you may want it to. You see, this kind of love is not by choice; it just happens. You don’t choose who to love or there are some people that would never experience the beauty of love. That’s why it’s difficult to accept certain couples and their union because maybe one isn’t physically becoming or has a terrible personality. And because you don’t choose w...